Day Two
Why This Moment?
Choosing What Matters Instead of Photographing Everything**
Today builds on the awareness you started yesterday.
You asked, “What’s happening here?”
Now you’ll ask the deeper question:
“Why this moment?”
Not every moment deserves a photograph.
Not every scene needs to be captured.
Not every bit of beauty is meant to be held.
Storytelling is not about documenting everything.
It’s about noticing what calls to you —
and understanding why.
This is where your personal style starts to take shape.
The Shift From “Pretty” to “Meaningful”
Most people take pictures of things that are pretty.
Pretty light.
Pretty scenery.
Pretty objects.
Pretty is fine.
Pretty is easy.
But a meaningful photo has something else:
a reason.
A tug.
A pull.
A quiet “this matters.”
It doesn’t need to be big or emotional.
It can be the smallest thing:
• the way the light lands on your table
• the warmth of your dog asleep in your lap
• the calm of your morning coffee
• the quiet in your house before anyone wakes
• the way the sky looks right before it rains
When you tune into why, your photos stop being random snapshots.
They become part of your inner world.
How to Feel the Moment Instead of Thinking It
You’re not trying to find the perfect answer.
You’re trying to notice what your attention is drawn to.
Here are gentle questions you can ask yourself:
What part of this moment is pulling me in?
The light?
The mood?
A feeling in your chest?
Something familiar?
What am I trying to remember?
A season of life.
A feeling.
A detail you don’t want to forget.
What would I tell someone about this moment?
What’s the sentence behind the photo?
It might be:
“This is where I feel calm.”
“This is a piece of my real life.”
“This feels like home.”
“I don't want to forget this.”
That’s your story.
How This Shapes Your Style
Style isn’t a preset.
It isn’t editing.
It isn’t copying someone else’s look.
Style is the pattern of moments you choose to notice.
Some people are drawn to:
• stillness
• contrast
• color
• quiet details
• human connection
• humor
• shadows
• texture
• nostalgia
• movement
• empty spaces
• messy real life
Your style is already inside you.
You’re just learning how to recognize it.
Today’s Practice: The Why Test
Choose three moments in your day — quiet, ordinary, unplanned.
This could be:
• a room you walked into
• something on your counter
• a shadow on the wall
• the weather outside
• a feeling in your space
• your dog or cat
• a moment of stillness
For each moment:
Pause for one breath.
Just enough to shift from automatic to aware.
Ask, “Why this moment?”
What pulled your attention?
Take one photo that reflects that, not the whole scene.
Not the entire kitchen —
the one detail you were drawn to.
Not the entire yard —
the patch of light that felt alive.
Not the entire room —
the shadow that felt familiar.
You’re choosing what matters.
What You’ll Notice
Your photos feel different.
More intimate.
More intentional.
More like tiny chapters instead of random scenes.
This is the beginning of true storytelling —
quiet, simple, honest.
Tomorrow, you learn what you’re trying to make someone feel,
which is the heart of emotional photography.
A Quiet Story
Lenses (or iPhone views) are not about complexity —
they’re about perspective.
Wide views show context.
Close views show intimacy.
Zoomed views show attention.
You don’t choose a lens for technical reasons.
You choose it for emotional ones.
Today wasn’t about equipment.
It was about choosing the distance that feels truest to you.
Are you someone who steps back to see everything?
Or someone who moves close to feel the moment?
Neither is better.
Both are honest.
PAUSE
Before you shoot, ask your body: closer or farther?
NOTICE
What distance feels natural to you today?
CAPTURE
Photograph one subject three ways:
• wide (context)
• mid (balanced)
• close (intimate)
Choose something simple:
• a blanket
• a plant leaf
• your dog’s paws
• the edge of a window
• a stack of books
REFLECT
• Which distance felt most like you?
Reflective Question:
Where do you naturally stand in your life right now — pulled close, held at a distance, or somewhere in between?