Day Four
Choosing the Story
Not Every Moment Needs a Photo — Here’s How to Know Which Ones Do**
Today’s shift is simple but important:
You don’t have to photograph everything you see.
You choose the story.
This is where your voice starts to separate itself from noise.
You stop taking photos just because something is “pretty,”
and you start taking photos because the moment means something.
When you choose intentionally, your images stop feeling scattered
and start feeling connected.
This is where coherence — and style — begins.
Why Most Photos Feel Random
Most beginners lift the camera whenever they see:
• a nice color
• a cute moment
• a pretty scene
• something interesting
• something symmetrical
• something trending
And the photos are “fine.”
But they don’t feel like them.
Because they didn’t choose the story.
The scene chose them.
Storytelling is the opposite:
you decide which moments deserve space
and which ones are just passing by.
How to Choose the Story (Soft + Clear)
Here’s the question you’ll start asking now:
“Is there something here I want to remember,
or am I just reacting to what’s in front of me?”
If you’re reacting → skip it
If something pulls your attention → photograph that
This is how you build photographs with meaning instead of clutter.
Use the Three Story Filters
When a moment catches your eye, run it through these three filters:
Meaning
Does this moment matter to me?
Is something unfolding?
Is something here worth keeping?
Feeling
What emotion is present?
Does the moment feel like something I want to express?
Perspective
Am I connected to this moment
or just “taking a photo because it’s there”?
If all three line up —
you’ve found your story.
The Story Isn’t the Scene — It’s the Part That Pulled You In
This matters:
Storytelling doesn’t mean photographing every part of the scene.
It means photographing the part of the scene
that woke something in you.
Maybe it’s:
• the way the light touches the edge of your cup
• the way your dog’s ears perk
• the mess that feels like real life
• the shadow moving across the wall
• the color that reminds you of childhood
• the weather changing
• the quiet in the room
• the simple truth of the moment
Storytelling is choosing just that part.
Not the whole kitchen
Not the whole yard
Not the whole scene
Just the part that holds the story.
Today’s Practice: The One Story Rule
For the rest of the day, try this:
Choose one moment
and commit to telling one story within it.
Example:
If your moment is “morning coffee,”
your story might be:
• the steam rising
• the quiet before the day starts
• the rim of the mug in soft light
• your hands holding warmth
• the stillness of the kitchen
• the color of the morning sky outside the window
You don’t need 10 photos.
You need one photo that holds the feeling.
Steps:
Pause
Ask “What’s the story here?”
Choose the part of the moment that holds it
Photograph only that
Walk away
This is how your work becomes intentional, not repetitive.
What You’ll Notice
• Your photos feel cleaner
• You stop overshooting
• You start trusting your intuition
• You feel more connected to your images
• Your style starts showing up without forcing it
You become the storyteller —
not the collector of pretty things.
Tomorrow, we go deeper with Day Five — Story Through Detail vs. Story Through Context, where you learn how to decide whether to shoot close or wide based on what the story needs.
A Quiet Story
Brightness isn’t just technical —
it’s emotional.
Slide up = openness, clarity, honesty.
Slide down = calm, depth, quiet.
The exposure slider is your emotional dial.
You’re deciding the tone of the moment.
Today wasn’t about fixing a photo.
It was about choosing how you want a moment to feel.
You shape the mood.
You shape the truth.
You shape what someone experiences.
That’s not pressure.
That’s power.
PAUSE
Slide slowly.
Feel how the mood changes.
NOTICE
What kind of light feels true today — bright or dim?
CAPTURE
Take one scene and capture it:
• brighter
• darker
• “just right”
Ideas:
• light hitting a wall
• the edge of a curtain
• a book on a table
• your kitchen counter
• a plant in uneven light
REFLECT
• Which version felt closest to the emotional truth?
Reflective Question:
What mood are you shaping in your own life right now — and do you want more light or more calm?